Four of Cups
When the Four of Cups is upright in a Tarot reading, you need to stop focusing so much on yourself and start to look outward. How can you focus on the needs of others? Of course, in certain situations, you do need to focus on the self. Self-reflection is great in times of stress, when you go within yourself to reflect and restore your emotional balance. It could also be a sign of apathy. If you feel you have lost all interest in activities and your life seems to be going stale, you need to focus on things that will get you out of the emotional rut. You need to open up.
When the Four of Cups is reversed in a Tarot reading, it means you are ready to fight your way out of a rut. You're leaving behind all the bad feelings and walking into the light of a life without remorse or regret. You're ready to be part of the world, and the world is ready for you!