What to do to win this person: Tower

Standing Tall:

When we're talking about relationships and the Tower card comes up, it's a heads up. It usually means there's gonna be a shake-up. Could be that you and your partner are making independent living arrangements. Maybe you're in different cities and things start to feel kinda tense and formal.

Sometimes, though, it doesn't mean a full-on split. Occasionally, I've seen it show someone doing all the leading, and the other person just going along. Or it could be there's a bit of an age gap between you. If you're single right now, this could actually be all about how much you're into your job - almost like you're in love with your work!

Upside Down:

When you flip the Tower card, it gets a little darker. You might be feeling boxed in by your relationship, like you're trapped or suffocated, and it's making you all kinds of anxious.

Looking at the Lenormand card combinations, seeing the "tower + heart" usually means you've put up a wall around your heart. It's hard for anyone to get close to you. If you're with someone though, this combo can mean the opposite, signifying a really solid, steady bond between you.

And the whole "tower + home" duo? It could mean your home's a cozy nest, maybe you're into family gatherings or you're both focusing hard on home stuff. But be careful - this could also mean you're walling yourselves off from the world outside.